Friendship and Love

Love and friendship....Which comes 1st?? Love or friendship or both,is it possible? When asked most of the people,they will go for friendship but when it comes to critical point and where you have to choose one,most will choose Love and I wonder why is that so..It's not that i hate love or what..It's just a big disappointment for me when it comes to friendship. Now I'm talking about girl-guy friendship..Can a guy and girl be true friends? Not friends but true friends like the one in one tamil movie acted by Sneha and Cheran,can't get the movie's name...In the movie,they are life long friends....This exist as a story only or does this really exist in real life?? How many of you have opposite gender as true friend without LOVE problem?? Well,if we see,most of the guy-girl friendship end in love,either both in love or one side and there goes all the problems if it is one side love...So,it's really hard for me to see a girl and guy be friends without this love problem...eh,I'm not bullshitting,I have the experience..Is it love and friendship two different things or one...Ya,Love blossom from friendship. So,is it one?

As one of tamil song's lyrics goes, Natpaachchu Love Illaiyae, Love Aachchu Natpillaiyae ( when there is love,there is no friendship and vice-versa ).Now,that's true..Everything will goes wrong in friendship when it turns to love ( one side love )...So,I feels it's really hard for opposite genders to be true friends or even just friends..There are few who can make it but it's really hard..Most of the time it is the guys who screw it up by proposing the girl and the girl will be rejecting like in the video below.Most of the guys will be friend with girls first to flirt later on...Haizz...



The lyrics of the above song that I feel have the meaning :

mugha nagha natmadhu natpalla
nencha thaghanaga natpadhu natpaagum
kaRka kasadara kaRpavai katrapin
maRakka seivadhu love aagum

Love is such a big mistake
Listen to me boy I know - No
Only friendship takes you higher everyday
As friends we grow

The lyrics that is in bold,is it true?
My question is..Can a girl and guy be true friends??

Alright,thats all for girl-guy friendship...Now it's for love and friendship..

One day, Love and Friendship met.

Love, proudly, said, "You know, all people in this world seek me. Without me, they cannot live. And you, you are useless. Without you, there is still me... People have their faith to have their beloved one. When they find their soul mates, you are nothing!!! Muahahahaha..."

"Ya, I know," said Friendship, "People can easily forget me if they find you."

"So," Love continued, "Why do you exist if I already exist? To be forgotten and hurt?"

Friendship just nodded. He said, "Friendship exists to put smile when love leaves tears."

Is it true?? Really this kind friendship exist?? When it comes to friendship and loves,most of people will say they give importance to friendship..As for me,it's bullshit..People dun really give a damn about it...Maybe not for some..But this is what happening..When it's the time to choose between this two,people tend to leave friendship for love...maybe one or two or three might not.But most of the time,love beats friendship and if u choose friendship over love, that's something really weird..or wow?

Love and friendship seems two different things that is really hard.Some prefer to be single thinking that love is headache and most of the time,love exist in the absence of friendship.No friendship,the next we will be looking is most probably will be love..or leaving alone without friends and love..Friends nowadays are merely for fun and when need help only..Friends in need are friends indeed,that is 'someone who needs your help becomes friendly in order to obtain it' or as most people understands it as 'someone who helps you when you are in need is a true friend'. Love vs friendship?? Which comes first?? This sorta of problem won't come if gf/bf and friends are understanding. But if not? Which comes first? Gone are those days where friends comes first..Now what comes first is the people who can satisfy our needs of life..sigh.

My next view will be on "so-called friendship".

Beauty Fades, Dumb is Forever

Most of you will definitely be familiar with the overused term ‘battle of the sexes’. Perhaps it was originated from the olden days, when women fought for equal rights, equal access to education, and the likes. Our foremothers tirelessly pursued the seemingly farfetched vision of the day when our women would be able to stand by a man not as his secretary or his trophy wife, but as his equal counterpart.After buckets of blood, sweat, and tears were shed, we now have co-ed schools; women are allowed to work, and we can wear pants! (Bye-bye poofy skirts and corsets!) Not to rain on anyone’s parade, but in my opinion, absolute equality among both genders is probably next to impossible. We advocate for better treatment and dream of having a ‘gentleman’ one day to call our own. But what constitutes a gentleman? One who opens the door for you? Pulls out your seat at the swanky restaurant? Then uncomplainingly pays the explosive bill for the lobster you ate in the end?So I ask: Why would you girls want that? We are perfectly capable of physical and financial exertions. Is it that warm, fuzzy feeling you get when someone ‘treats you right’? What about the guys then? Don’t we have to ‘treat them right’?To put it simply, we are the result of classical conditioning. When mummy and daddy found out that you were a girl, chances are, they bought you nice pink little booties with matching dresses. You were cute and cuddly while your brother was tough and will grow up to be a ‘big, strong man’. They rewarded your cries by attending to you when you fell down. As for the guys, try to recall when tears rolled down your cheeks because of the mean old school bully. Your dad probably quoted Russell Peters: “Be a man! Do the right thing!” And the right thing here is, ladies and gentlemen, to suck it up and fight back. Punch if you will, kick and scream if you might – truth is, society condones manly quarrels more than girl fights. On that note, to the public eye, our abilities seem to be limited to scratching, clawing, and hair-tugging. Impressive!

To make things worse, people whom society deems as idols are laughable. Look at newly-turned skank Nelly Furtado or air-headed bimbo Jessica ‘is tuna chicken or fish?’ Simpson. Look at hit reality TV series ‘The Simple Life’. There’s no denying that ‘dumb’ is ‘hot’. Yes, it is a scientifically supported fact that men are genetically-engineered to look for physically attractive women because they signal health, youth, and fertility. Then they’d have strong children running about, bearing their father’s name. They don’t need women with high-flying careers and 1001 calls to take. I say, so what? Are we going to dumb ourselves down and dress ourselves up according to what the ‘fashion bible’ Cleo and what not says? “Mini skirts are in and pumps are so yesterday.” “Match your pink handbag with a nice glittery accessory.” And the ever ridiculous “Five Tips on How to Satisfy Your Man.”

I. Don’t. Care.

Latest Fashion- Good or Bad?

Following the latest hollywood trend ? or some hong kong latest trend ?

What do you think about girls that wears socks till their knees that is black in white, doing haircuts that makes them look like lala girls and putting up black nail polish when they are just around 15 - 18 yrs old ?

I think they look weird than the majority of the society. When they followed the latest trend, I don't think they got that body and look to fit into that fashion trend. Like wearing big black sunglasses that belonged to the 60s.

I would say that I'd rather dress what I feel comfortable and approachable to another person =).

What's your point of view ?

WOMEN OR FLOWER??

Why it's better to be a Woman!

1. We got off the Titanic first.
2. We get to flirt with systems support men who always return our calls, and are nice to us when we blow up our computers.
3. Our boyfriend's clothes make us look elfin & gorgeous. Guys look like complete idiots in ours.
4. We can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.
5. We can cry and get off speeding fines.
6. We've never lusted after a cartoon character or the central female figure in a computer game.
7. Taxis stop for us.
8. Men die earlier, so we get to cash in on the life insurance.
9. We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.
10. Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies ... (you get the point).
11. We can hug our friends without wondering if she thinks we're gay.
12. We can hug our friends without wondering if WE'RE gay.
13. New lipstick gives us a whole new lease on life.
14. It's possible to live our whole lives without ever taking a group shower.
15. We don't have to fart to amuse ourselves.
16. If we forget to shave, no one has to know.
17. We can congratulate our team-mate without ever touching her butt.
18. If we have a zit, we know how to conceal it.
19. We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates are still there.
20. If we're dumb, some people will find it cute.
21. We don't have to memorize Caddyshack or Fletch to fit in.
22. We have the ability to dress ourselves.
23. We can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture them naked.
24. If we marry someone 20 years younger, we're aware that we look like an idiot.
25. Our friends won't think we're weird if we ask whether there's spinach in our teeth.
26. There are times when chocolate really can solve all your problems.
27. We'll never regret piercing our ears.
28. We can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.
29. We know which glass was ours by the lipstick mark.
30. We have enough sense to realize that the easiest way to get out of being lost is to ask for directions.
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Girls VS Grown Women........

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.

Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits

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Girls want to control the man in their life.

Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

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Girls check you for not calling them.

Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

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Girls are afraid to be alone.

Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

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Girls ignore the good guys.

Grown women ignore the bad guys.

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Girls make you come home.

Grown women make you want to come home.

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Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.

Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

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Girls try to monopolize all their man's time ( I.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).

Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

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Girls think a guy crying is weak.

Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

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Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.

Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

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Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.

Grown women know that that was just one man.

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Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.

Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

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Girls will read this and get an attitude.

Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends".