Malaysia: 51st Merdeka Day

Our country will be celebrating its 51st Merdeka Day in few days time. But it seems something is missing for this year. It is not as grand as it was previous years. The spirit is not there.It's lacking. Maybe not for you,but thats what I feel it.

What has happened to this year's Merdeka Day? Frankly, does anyone of you Malaysian know what is this year's Merdeka Day slogan? Even I didn't realize of it till I saw the slogan in picture below. I felt the difference from what I experienced last year. The spirit is missing. It's not that I dun love my country anymore but the things that happening around seems overcome the joy of Merdeka.
The spirit of Merdeka is just not by displaying the flag but to know the slogan of the year too. Well,by observing the things that happening in our country now,you might say we still never obtained Independence Day. But still we have obtained right from British? Well,the situation now is like "Keluar kandang singa,masuk kandang harimau". Yes,it is,we are freed from British but we ended up with BN. But eventhough,we have been marginalised by BN for past this years,it is still our duty to celebrate and have the spirit of Merdeka. All for the sake of our beloved country. Leave politic aside. WE,as MALAYSIANS,should have the spirit.

But the problem now is the theme " Malaysians".The concept "Bangsa Malaysia".

Look at the picture above.Just explain how racist are some people in this country and ironically,this year slogan is "Unity Is the Pillar of Success" (Perpaduan Teras Kejayaan). But looking at the events that happened past few weeks,Malaysia has been witnessing some kind of disunity among the races. The Bar Council Religious Conversion Forum ruckus and the Malay-Muslim UiTM student protests.

Not only that,this year I don't see lots of vehicles zipping around with fluttering Jalur Gemilang like the last few years. What about the call for raising the flag?I never heard any campaign of raising the flag from PakLah.Busy zzz perhaps? Instead I hear about the call for flying the national flag upside-down as a sign of protest. The word "patriotism" is hardly mentioned these days. This year no minister is blaming no one for "not being patriotic enough". Instead,they are busy blaming the oppositions and busy getting their ass sticked in current seat.

What will we witness for this year Merdeka? Will there be loud joyous cries in unison of "Merdeka ! Merdeka! Merdeka!" among Malaysians of all races? Or shouts of anger blaming each other: "Mereka! Mereka! Mereka!"

Malaysians were more interested about the Olympic games in Beijing and Permatang Pauh by-election. And next they will be interested with what Anwar going to do in parliament. And most awaited Sept 16.

Converting to other religion

People are free to practice any religion of their choice.People are born in a religion..Doesn't matter what religion is that but there is one for sure...They live their life as per the teachings of their born religion. But do all follow their born religion till death? Why do some prefer to follow other religion as all religion says the same thing...Correct me if I'm wrong..Some people change their religion for some reason or reasons which is normally an advantage for them.



I have always wondered why people change their born faith and what is that which gets changed in this exercise? Do people stop believing in God? Do they believe that they will get a better life in their new religion, both socially and economically? Errr..okie..converting to Islam in Malaysia might give you a better life since you have all the special privileges..That applies in Malaysia. You will get a far far better life..But do people have to or that desperate to convert just for this so-called better life? Aren't you cheating yourself? If you convert for the sake of a better life,you are just another materialistic person..Alright,this is a reason why people do convert.

Another reason is,marriage,normally love marriage...When you love a guy (applies to girls ) from another religion,the girl have to follow the guy's religion and thus convert to marry( not sure ). Why can't just the girl stick to the religion that she was practicing since born? Why do girls and the kids have to follow the guy's religion?Will you convert to other religion for love? Well,you might say,why cares which religion we follows when all religion are saying the same thing..Well,it is true but we do have the different believes and sort of things that we have practised since born right?. And specially in Malaysia,you have to convert to Islam if you wants to marry your partner which happens to be Islam. Why is that so? Can't they just get marry without converting?

And I don't understand why can't someone convert from Islam to other religion? Is that allowed or not? Can someone clarify me on this matter?
I guess you guys know which religion explains well about the picture above...Not being anti or what,it's just my view over the observance through some quotes from a holy book on television.

And the worse,some do try to convert others to their religion?? I have no idea whether you have come across of relatives asking or to say more specifically try to brain wash us by asking us to convert to their religion?Most of them have this problem that saying their religion is more superior all that.Damn you people!! If you have converted,go ahead with it,why forcing others to convert as well? It's really annoying when people preach about their own religion.

I am a believer that one should not change his or her born religion. A person is born in a faith and should die in the same faith. This is the only thing which comes with the person at birth and will go with the person on death. Also, religion should not be used as a bargain tool. Religion makes people internally strong. Using this internal strength, people should work to become externally strong. No body has a monopoly on religion. Some people misuse religion to serve their personal interests. This they are able to do as other people run away to other religion.

Well,you might say it doesn't matter as it is people's choice to choose what religion they wants to practice..But why do they have to convert? What's the difference between the religion that they was practicing and the religion they want to convert?Why? why? why?

Malaysian Political Struggle

It has been quite a long time since I blogged about politics.. It's not that I had lost the passion but I just got fed up with the politic drama which seems more worse then Tamil drama.. Politic drama haven't even reach the climax..And it just don't have one climax..Of course it don't have one climax because aint politic is a drama..The first climax was during the GE...The next climax will be for this by-election. And then the date set by DSAI-Sept 16. And more to come perhaps..

Malaysia politic seems very unstable with uncountable plots going on.It's like a big stirs going on..For what are politicians for? To serve the Rakyats right or to serve them self?? But is that the one happening in Malaysia?? Can we trust politicians? I will never trust politicians. Each politicians have their own agenda..M I right? Correct me if I'm wrong...But thats what I think....You think DSAI don't have his own agenda?Well,we know PM and others for surely/certainly/obviously/absolutely have their agenda.We all know why this this and this peoples using "people power" to gain politic power. Mind you,"this" in my previous sentence refers to politicians in general. I'm not a pro-BN neither pro-PR.Most of them for sure have own things to get done by the help of the politic power.

Alright,back to the topic before I stray out of the topic more further.As I said earlier,I will never trust politicians...Why?Well, it might be their duty to steer their messages to the best of their abilities but in the end there would be flip n flops to argue on their rights. Well, that's politics.And it doesn't mean I have to trust them just because they are politicians in the name of serving for people? Since they are politicians,IT IS their duty to serve the people. So.it doesn't mean we have or I have to trust this people especially those who try gaining the trust by empty promises and demands,demands and only demands!! Not implemented demands.

Since March 08,what have we Malaysians achieved? Well,you might list down things that have be done in PR states..But was that the only things that we wanted to achieve? Our Government can't perform and our Opposition can't counter thus leading us into total inconsistency in our own land.And our beloved PDRM , are you guys working for politicians or to be specific,for BN? Stop backing up them and get your jobs done...There are just too many cases in pending because you guys are too busy with this politic drama. Whats with Nurin and Sharlinie case?? Whats the progress on it? Or it's just another case for you folks? Or too busy covering up everyone's ass? Sigh...

I just wonder whats so hard on working hand in hand as Malaysians? Why the keturunan and ethnic problems still prevailing? Malaysia can't progress at all with a single keturunan as it was proved during the last 51 years!! Can't you open your ears, eyes and minds? Why are you people sooo with this special privileges when it is the basic things that every human in this country needs no matter of what races,religion or whatsoever. For example,the UiTM matter....Don't other races needs education or is just that others races are rich enough to afford their children to study in private University?Why are guys feel so affected with the 10% allocation? After all it is just a 10%. and it's just on education wise.Are going to be the same when working?Even some of the Malays agree with that...Read here . Leave this UiTM story aside as I feel I'm straying out of the topic.

Is it that hard for us all to work as Malaysians?? Why is so hard to implement Bangsa Malaysia? We are just implementing the so-called Bangsa Malaysia. The philosophy is that, let's take the mentality of what we think of how our friends treated us. The reverse is how we have treated our friends! That's the philosophy! Why making it complicated with this quota,buta craps all? And ya hell,I stumbled upon a blog,which is here ,and it sounds as below :

Would you like to go to a store that allows to you to destroy things to help you relieve stress and forget about your life dissatisfactions?

This new business concept is great for Malaysians especially for those who have big problems with Islam, Muslims and Malays in this Muslim-majority country. If you can’t break us Muslims, why don’t you folks go and break things?

Yes,I do understand that this refers to for those who........But why on the earth this certain people would break Muslims? What they gonna gain from that? Basic equalities? Or does that gonna make the politic drama in Malaysia stable? Or it gonna make the others united with especially some Malayalees having problem with Indians?? Gimme a break,as I know, Chinese and Indians and few Malays wants the Bangsa Malaysia concept.. But somehow there will be a black sheep be racist and further dividing us. In the end,we all gonna die as a human. Whats so big fuss who gonna break who? Geez!

Back to the politic drama,all are waiting anxiously for the up-coming climax that is Permatang Pauh by-election. The situation is just hot enough to make a twist.Anything might happen..BN and PR are trying their very best. Only one of this gonna happen...BN might spring a surprise with some cheap,dirty,idiotic tactics or DSAI would march into Parliament. Till then,kindly witness the plots going with both party finding fault on each other.

Remember,

We have to be gentlemen for the whole world in observance.

THE REST IS THAT WE MALAYSIANS MUST STAND UP AND BE COUNTED.

Friendship and Love

Love and friendship....Which comes 1st?? Love or friendship or both,is it possible? When asked most of the people,they will go for friendship but when it comes to critical point and where you have to choose one,most will choose Love and I wonder why is that so..It's not that i hate love or what..It's just a big disappointment for me when it comes to friendship. Now I'm talking about girl-guy friendship..Can a guy and girl be true friends? Not friends but true friends like the one in one tamil movie acted by Sneha and Cheran,can't get the movie's name...In the movie,they are life long friends....This exist as a story only or does this really exist in real life?? How many of you have opposite gender as true friend without LOVE problem?? Well,if we see,most of the guy-girl friendship end in love,either both in love or one side and there goes all the problems if it is one side love...So,it's really hard for me to see a girl and guy be friends without this love problem...eh,I'm not bullshitting,I have the experience..Is it love and friendship two different things or one...Ya,Love blossom from friendship. So,is it one?

As one of tamil song's lyrics goes, Natpaachchu Love Illaiyae, Love Aachchu Natpillaiyae ( when there is love,there is no friendship and vice-versa ).Now,that's true..Everything will goes wrong in friendship when it turns to love ( one side love )...So,I feels it's really hard for opposite genders to be true friends or even just friends..There are few who can make it but it's really hard..Most of the time it is the guys who screw it up by proposing the girl and the girl will be rejecting like in the video below.Most of the guys will be friend with girls first to flirt later on...Haizz...



The lyrics of the above song that I feel have the meaning :

mugha nagha natmadhu natpalla
nencha thaghanaga natpadhu natpaagum
kaRka kasadara kaRpavai katrapin
maRakka seivadhu love aagum

Love is such a big mistake
Listen to me boy I know - No
Only friendship takes you higher everyday
As friends we grow

The lyrics that is in bold,is it true?
My question is..Can a girl and guy be true friends??

Alright,thats all for girl-guy friendship...Now it's for love and friendship..

One day, Love and Friendship met.

Love, proudly, said, "You know, all people in this world seek me. Without me, they cannot live. And you, you are useless. Without you, there is still me... People have their faith to have their beloved one. When they find their soul mates, you are nothing!!! Muahahahaha..."

"Ya, I know," said Friendship, "People can easily forget me if they find you."

"So," Love continued, "Why do you exist if I already exist? To be forgotten and hurt?"

Friendship just nodded. He said, "Friendship exists to put smile when love leaves tears."

Is it true?? Really this kind friendship exist?? When it comes to friendship and loves,most of people will say they give importance to friendship..As for me,it's bullshit..People dun really give a damn about it...Maybe not for some..But this is what happening..When it's the time to choose between this two,people tend to leave friendship for love...maybe one or two or three might not.But most of the time,love beats friendship and if u choose friendship over love, that's something really weird..or wow?

Love and friendship seems two different things that is really hard.Some prefer to be single thinking that love is headache and most of the time,love exist in the absence of friendship.No friendship,the next we will be looking is most probably will be love..or leaving alone without friends and love..Friends nowadays are merely for fun and when need help only..Friends in need are friends indeed,that is 'someone who needs your help becomes friendly in order to obtain it' or as most people understands it as 'someone who helps you when you are in need is a true friend'. Love vs friendship?? Which comes first?? This sorta of problem won't come if gf/bf and friends are understanding. But if not? Which comes first? Gone are those days where friends comes first..Now what comes first is the people who can satisfy our needs of life..sigh.

My next view will be on "so-called friendship".

Celebrities rules the world??

I have been wondering about this for quite a long time. And now I pen it down...eeerr...type it down..Why do so many people going crazy after this actress and actors? As for me,they are not the life for us..Acting is their career as doctors , engineers and etc. This celebrities set the style,no matter dressing or hair...They are the icon. And yeah,from a friendster comment up to Deepavali cards.And,what does actor/actress got to do with Deepavali? Isn't something related to Deepavali should be the symbol for the warm wishes?

I just want to know in what way they ( actor and actress ) are contributing to your life? Why is that hoo and aah whenever they come down for any shooting? What's the point?? Ican't get a point from it. But it makes me wonder when one so excited after meeting an actor or actress. And even double excited if he/she shook hand. Damn.!! Seriously,what's with that? You met and alien and did it contribute to NASA ?? No right...Come on,those people wont even remember you after a few seconds meeting you. For you,they might be the world,but for them,you are no one. Get a life people!!

And some crazy with the rooms full with their (actor/actress ) posters...Arrgghhhhh.....Why why why? Not only that,displaying their picture as the primary picture in friendster..And the caption for the picture will be,hey,it's me...Isn't that so lame?? It's seriously damn lame..Whats so great displaying their picture?? Shame on you..You should be proud of your own look and identity or you don't have your own identity? And there is even fan groups for this celebrities..And you will be wasting your time of arguing who is the best and who is not and create the problem among yourself where the related actor/actress have a good relationship between them and seriously don't give a damn for this all.. What have they done to the world for you to be a fan of them?Alright,it's your problem.But it's useless.I'm not a fan of any actor and actress.

For me,it's really an idiotic act to follow actor and actress style or whatsoever. You watch the movie,finish,thats it...No more thinking of it or going crazy of it..And a BIG NO for making pooja or prayers when the movie is released or for their birthday or wedding!!!

And alot of people seems to be so interested with this celebrities personal life..From their wedding up to whatever they do..Hey,come on,it's their wedding,what you so kepoh-kepoh wana know what they wear for the wedding all..And last year,if I'm not mistaken,a big fuss was made for Siti Nuhaliza's wedding..Damn!!

Heck cares with who they get marry or with who they sleep?? It's their bloody private life!!Give them a little bit privacy you people...Haizz..I'm getting too emo....

And it will be a BIG HOT news even for a small matter such as a problem between the producer and actor/actress..Just a waste of time...Do they mind the problem you having at your work place..Why giving a damn about this all?? Just because they are actor/actress and well known??
Haizz....I wonder where this gonna end especially to those who remember this celebrities full details in detail...Sigh.

Going crazy after them not gonna change the status of your life unless they get you a chance to act.

Beauty Fades, Dumb is Forever

Most of you will definitely be familiar with the overused term ‘battle of the sexes’. Perhaps it was originated from the olden days, when women fought for equal rights, equal access to education, and the likes. Our foremothers tirelessly pursued the seemingly farfetched vision of the day when our women would be able to stand by a man not as his secretary or his trophy wife, but as his equal counterpart.After buckets of blood, sweat, and tears were shed, we now have co-ed schools; women are allowed to work, and we can wear pants! (Bye-bye poofy skirts and corsets!) Not to rain on anyone’s parade, but in my opinion, absolute equality among both genders is probably next to impossible. We advocate for better treatment and dream of having a ‘gentleman’ one day to call our own. But what constitutes a gentleman? One who opens the door for you? Pulls out your seat at the swanky restaurant? Then uncomplainingly pays the explosive bill for the lobster you ate in the end?So I ask: Why would you girls want that? We are perfectly capable of physical and financial exertions. Is it that warm, fuzzy feeling you get when someone ‘treats you right’? What about the guys then? Don’t we have to ‘treat them right’?To put it simply, we are the result of classical conditioning. When mummy and daddy found out that you were a girl, chances are, they bought you nice pink little booties with matching dresses. You were cute and cuddly while your brother was tough and will grow up to be a ‘big, strong man’. They rewarded your cries by attending to you when you fell down. As for the guys, try to recall when tears rolled down your cheeks because of the mean old school bully. Your dad probably quoted Russell Peters: “Be a man! Do the right thing!” And the right thing here is, ladies and gentlemen, to suck it up and fight back. Punch if you will, kick and scream if you might – truth is, society condones manly quarrels more than girl fights. On that note, to the public eye, our abilities seem to be limited to scratching, clawing, and hair-tugging. Impressive!

To make things worse, people whom society deems as idols are laughable. Look at newly-turned skank Nelly Furtado or air-headed bimbo Jessica ‘is tuna chicken or fish?’ Simpson. Look at hit reality TV series ‘The Simple Life’. There’s no denying that ‘dumb’ is ‘hot’. Yes, it is a scientifically supported fact that men are genetically-engineered to look for physically attractive women because they signal health, youth, and fertility. Then they’d have strong children running about, bearing their father’s name. They don’t need women with high-flying careers and 1001 calls to take. I say, so what? Are we going to dumb ourselves down and dress ourselves up according to what the ‘fashion bible’ Cleo and what not says? “Mini skirts are in and pumps are so yesterday.” “Match your pink handbag with a nice glittery accessory.” And the ever ridiculous “Five Tips on How to Satisfy Your Man.”

I. Don’t. Care.

Dont Do Good.......Here are the consequences when yo do good!!!!

-They'll accuse you(with anything).....
Some people wont do any good to anyone in whatsoever,but will accuse(with anything) who is trying to do good.This bunch of idiots are useless!!
They wont do any good,and they wont let you to do good!!

-They'll threat you......
If you try to do good,however it will affect someone.The "someone" will threat you to stop doing the good thing,coz it's affecting him/her.The way threat is different,sometimes they'll threat juzt verbally!Sometimes,they threat violently(punches,kicks,u knowla).Sometimes,they'll send weird messages,like dead cat,a human's finger or chicken head,or abusing sms'es,or prank calls!!You've to be brave enough to face this all,when you're up to do good!!

-They will try to trap you in anything.....
They'll trap you in any thing.Such as Police cases.If you're vocal enough Sedition Act,and Emergency Ordinance is waiting you.And even ACA will be involved to stop you from doing good!!

-Will go trough sleepless nights.....
When you trying to do good,that will be very hard to have a short break for relaxation!!Will be very hard to manage your days,and thats realy terrible to go trough!!

-Someone/thing that you love will leave you....
You may lose someone or something that you love most.The reason is simple,they will say "I'm sidelined/abandoned!!" Thats why they're saying "service above self".The shoulder to cry on will fly will be invincible!!but is it worth to lose something unvaluable(love) for doing good things to people around you!!
Need a serious consideration in this part.

And finally.....

-You might be killed.....
At first we saw threats!!
Here is second step of threats!!
They might kill you!!
Not all can accep the good things!!
There are evils still out there!!
Together with god,setans too exist in this world!!
Life is too good to sacrifie!!

DONT DO GOOD!!!
Cause,you might lose your LIFE!!!